Hard Conversations

Greetings from Kansas! Caleb and I made an impromptu visit to my childhood home in order to spend some time with my mother. My traveling toddler did quite well, again, but it probably was highly entertaining to see me venture through Denver security by myself with a 1-year-old. You know those moms who have dinosaur/monkey/bear leashes attached to their kids? I'll never judge again...

I have a quick post today, but I hope it's encouraging to you. Have you ever dreaded a conversation or a confrontation that may be looming? Maybe with a friend, a boss, a parent, or an older child? I have been worrying over a situation that will come to a head soon, and the Father gently led me to Matthew 10 this morning. I pray that these words may help you with any difficult or anxiety-causing talks that may be coming your way, as a woman, a wife, and a mother.

"...At that time, you will be given what to say, for it will not be you speaking, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you." Matthew 10:19-20

He always goes before us, and He always prepares the way for us. No matter what difficult situation you may encounter, pray that His words will take the place of yours. Today, and everyday, be blessed!

MMSM #64 

Kroger has introduced a new line of organic products that receive my MMSM seal of approval! The products are tasty, there are lots of different options (dairy, spaghetti sauce, noodles, meats, etc.), and the prices are excellent compared to other brands offering organic options. Here is a picture of the logo. Happy healthy eating for you and your family!

Tip #49

Tooth-brushing is one of those necessary, yet difficult, tasks to complete with toddlers! Right before bedtime wasn't working for us, as Caleb was tired, winding down, and just wanting to sleep. Shoving a toothbrush in his mouth didn't really jive with our calm atmosphere. So, I switched it up. I now keep his toothbrush and paste in the kitchen, and he brushes after breakfast and dinner. He gets to do it while I clean up his tray, then I finish for him. It's become part of our routine, and he isn't fighting me as much lately! If he does have a snack or milk before bedtime (rarely), I figure that his teeth probably won't fall out of his head...well actually, those baby teeth will eventually fall out of his head :-)

The Beatitudes, minus "Bible-talk"

Ever read a bit of scripture that you are completely familiar with, and then God reveals something fresh and exciting to you? This morning, I was reading Matthew 5 in The Message. I've read this chapter many times, but this was one of my first times reading it in this version.

On a sidenote, this translation of scripture was written by a man named Eugene Peterson. In church last Sunday, our pastor shared a bit of history about this particular version of the Bible. Eugene Peterson is a scholar who reads, writes, and speaks Greek, Hebrew, Aramaic, and English. He took his God-given talents and paraphrased the entire Bible, old and new testament, in order to word it in a way which would speak to people unfamiliar with "Bible-talk," specifically drug addicts. I didn't know the history of The Message, but I do know that Eugene's powerful gift has helped me to better understand passages of the Bible which I previously skipped over in confusion. If there is a verse you are having a hard time grasping, Google the same verse in The Message translation. You may really be blessed by what you find!

So this morning, I came across the Beatitudes in Matthew 5. The Message portrays the words of Jesus in a clear and beautiful way. Be encouraged by this today, mommies...

1 - You're blessed when you're at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and His rule.

 2 - You're blessed when you feel you've lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.

3 - You're blessed when you're content with just who you are--no more, no less. That's the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can't be bought.

4 - You're blessed when you've worked up a good appetite for God. He's food and drink in the best meal you'll ever eat.

5 - You're blessed when you care. At the moment of being 'care-full,' you find yourselves cared for.

6 - You're blessed when you get your inside world--your mind and heart--put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.

7 - You're blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That's when you discover who you really are, and your place in God's family.

8 - You're blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God's kingdom.

Matthew 5:3-10

I thought #7 was beautifully fitting for the life of a mother with multiple children. Isn't it true that we are to show our children how to cooperate and love one another, by modeling and teaching? Right now, motherhood is our role in God's family. We have many others, many hats that we wear, but when God blesses us with a child, He is asking for our whole hearts and minds to be lovingly focused on preparing that child for their role in God's kingdom. Through the great days and the not-so-great days.

Finally, when thinking about the many ways in which God has blessed us, let's not forget how we are blessed in the less than perfect packages...namely the ways listed above. Sometimes, He blesses us through trials. I look back over 2012 and can now consider my health difficulties and scares a tremendous blessing, although it sure was hard to see it in the midst of the situation. I can't think of one single year of my 30 years on this planet when He drew me closer to Him than this past year. It was scary, it was frustrating, it was exhausting, but it forced me to lean on Him and His plan for my health and my life. For that, I am blessed.

Today, and everyday, be blessed!

BTW, I updated the GTWTHot Deals page today with a blurb about our local Target this is closing. Check it out, CS mommies!

Apps Galore!

Good morning! Today's post is one massive organizational tip and MMSM, and it's not terribly spiritual. But, it's pretty cool! I'm probably behind the times, but I want to share about my iPhone apps that I love (free, of course!), and some iPad apps that kept Caleb's attention on the airplane.

iPhone apps (all are free!)

• Q102.7 KBIQ - Colorado Springs' local contemporary Christian music station that you can access from anywhere in the world.
• Bible - this app has reading plans, a variety of translations, and daily verses that you can share via text, email, or Facebook.
• Coupons App - check my MMSM page for a detailed explanation of this app...it's great!
• Instagram - check my OT page for a detailed explanation of this app. This one was super fun during December for Christmas pictures.
• My Days - OMG...amazing! This will track your periods, ovulation, when you were intimate, whether or not you take your pill (if you need that option), your temperature, your weight, your mood, a "notes" option to track a variety of P.M.S. symptoms, and it will track a pregnancy (if needed).
• Pandora - be still my heart! I know this has been around for years, but I have just recently discovered the coolness of this app. Yes, there are periodic commercials unless you want to pay $3.99 per month, but we are cheap-os :-) Some of my favorite stations include: Easy Listening Radio, Pop and Hip Hop Power Workout, Christian Contemporary Holiday, Christmas Radio, and Solo Piano Radio. You can also check out this link: Pandora Workout Stations for a list of awesome stations to help you through a work out. Why pay for music when you can have this option wherever you go?!
• Pinterest - well, you know my love affair with this app.
• Shazam - super cool! Whenever you hear a song on the radio, in a restaurant, at a friend's house, at church, you can press "shazam," and it will tag the song to your phone to buy at a later date.
• Allrecipes - a great recipe app.
• Amazon - an easy way to scan bar codes in stores, price match items, and update your diaper orders on the go!
• Craigslist - just like the website only easier to manage on a phone.
• Ebay - this works like the website, but an amazingly cool feature is that you can set up a search for a specific item (i.e. Mackenzie-Childs courtly check kitchenware), and every time someone lists an item in that category, it sends a notification to your phone. Fun way to shop!
• Flashlight - super handy when you are searching for the elusive Thomas Train under the couch!
• Healthy Steps - this app will track your distance traveled and calories burned on a walk/hike by GPS. Very cool!
• Realtor.com - house-hunting? This app has a neat feature that allows you to search for listed homes near your the exact location of your phone. Find a neighborhood that you like? See everything for sale within a few mile radius.
• Wallpapers - TONS of cute graphics for your home and lock screen.
• Cinemark - check local movie listings super fast.
• iHeartRadio - this is similiar to Pandora, but you can find actual radio stations from all around the country.
• Redbox - search for and reserve movies at your nearest Redbox (and don't forget to use the coupon codes listed on my MMSM page!).
• Red Stamp - use this digital card app to send sweet cards to your hubby, your kiddos, or whoever!
• ShopSavvy - a bar code scanner which allows you to price match items you find in stores on the internet.
• Zillow - this is a similar app to Realtor.com, but it actually lets you see sale history and current value of practically any home you drive by. Kinda cool in a stalker sort of way :-)

iPad apps

When my dad upgraded his iPad, his older model had no home. Luckily, it found one with us! Truthfully, I probably use 1% of it's capability, but it's a fun gadget. Without further ado, here are apps that I use on the iPad:

• Kroger Co. - this will really help keep couponing and grocery lists organized if you shop at a Kroger store. It also gives an alphabetized list of their sale items for each week.
• Netflix - you can get this on your phone, but I like using the bigger screen of the iPad for Caleb to watch some of his shows.
• Flash Cards - awesome baby app for learning foods, animals, letters, transportation, numbers, and colors.
• Laugh & Learn 123 by Fisher-Price - this teachers numbers with animals and is interactive. Cute!

You may ask how this post has anything to do with staying at home and making it work. Well, these apps don't cost a thing, they each add organization or fun to our lives, and some allow us to do things I would already be doing in a much more efficient way!

If any of you have great apps that you would like to share about, especially those appealing to kids, please comment below! Be blessed, mommies!

Family Time, Family Goals

Welcome back! As a follow up to yesterday's post, I wanted to share the goals we have set for 2013 as a family. Individual goals are great, but it's so important to work with my husband towards common desires in order to set a good example of working together for our son. Speaking of husbands and daddies, let me digress to give them a shout out with this hilarious video I stumbled across this evening!

And I thought we were tired! Two boys and triplets is no joke! I hope you enjoyed :-) Back to family goals!

1. Stick to our budget and save every month

• We pride ourselves on being ultra cheap-os, but accounting for every dollar each month sometimes slips through the cracks. We want to do a better job of holding ourselves accountable and of not wasting money that could be saved or used in a better way. After all, just because something is a great deal doesn't negate the fact that it still costs money!

2. Sell, or rent, our current home and purchase a home that is smaller and less expensive, but still meets our needs

• This is a big one! We are currently hunting for the perfect home that would be the perfect downsize. It may seem odd when we are planning to grow our family, God-willing, but we have come to the realization that we could live in a much smaller space and have a much lower mortgage. We have worked hard to ensure that the only debt we have is in our house, but why not lower that number as well!

3. Strive for a whole foods/real foods eating plan as a family

• My hubby and I started this year with a 3-day fruit and veggie fast. We had several reasons...we ate way too much junk on our vacation, we wanted to detox, and we wanted to have a time of deprivation to better hear God's plans for our year. It was difficult, but it was incredibly helpful. We ended up at a book store searching through the health and fitness section for an eating plan that would be doable and sustainable for our. This is brand new for us, so I don't have any great tips yet :-) This week, we're focusing on eating things that naturally occur in nature...fruits, veggies, meat, and some cheeses and whole-grain bread. I've done lots of diets and eating plans in the past, but it sure does help having my honey alongside me this time!

4. No TV Saturdays!

• Let's face it, most of the time, TV is a waste of time. We have decided to dedicate a whole day to other activities besides vegging in front of the flat screen. As we are sitting here, I just suggested that we have a no electronics evening once per week (no TV, no computer, no iPad, no phones, but maybe some music). The hubby didn't respond very well to that just now. I'll keep you posted :-)

5. Finally, I suppose my goal #1 is actually a couples activity. I can't very well do that alone! Haha!

One last thing before I wrap up my New Year's posts. I picked out a new devotional book for Christmas, and I am absolutely loving it. They are quick, very applicable to women, and incredibly insightful. Check out:

Today, and everyday, be blessed!

Happy 2013!

Welcome to a new year! I love this time in January...fresh starts, new outlooks, intentional time spent with our Lord to provide direction for the year ahead. If you read our family Christmas letter, you know that 2012 was a challenging year for the McNamee family. We are truly looking forward to all that God has in store for us this year, whatever that may be :-)

Last year, we started a tradition. After the fabulous festivities of Christmas, New Year's, and our wedding anniversary passed (thank God for five incredible years!), my husband and I sit down and write our goals for the upcoming months. We pray over them together, type them up, and then post them on Facebook and our refrigerator as a reminder to ourselves and for accountability from our friends. We didn't meet all of our goals last year, but it was so neat to see how God kept them in the forefront of our minds, and to see how He allowed many of them to come to fruition.

I want to share my 2013 personal and family goals with all of you. Maybe my list can spark some ideas for your family. I imagine that older children would really enjoy sharing what they want to do over the course of the next year, and it is a great way for us, as mommies, to sweetly guide our children towards achievable goals and discuss what needs to be done in order for their dreams to be fulfilled.

Let me be honest by saying that I'm not sure how several of these will actually pan out. But, they have been on my heart for the last week, I've committed to praying about each one of these desires, and I've asked God to direct my steps. Speaking of His guidance, let this verse be our mantra for all of our plans in 2013:

"In her heart a woman plans her course, but the Lord determines her steps." Proverbs 16:9

Kindra's 2013 Goals

1. Become pregnant with baby #2

• We know this is ultimately up to God. But, God has promised us another child. We're sure of this. I don't know when this child will appear, but I feel emotionally, mentally, and physically ready to do the baby whirlwind again! Stay tuned!

2. Become active in ministry leadership with Patrick, my husband

• Last year, I became very active in our church. Patrick traveled much of the time, so it was crucial for me to have a support system of Godly women as I learned, and continue to learn, how to be a mother. This year, I would love for Patrick and I to minister together. I'm not sure what this will look like, but we're open to whatever He asks us to do!

3. Keep a daily prayer journal, making note of answered prayers

• Need a reminder of our Father's faithfulness and love? Simply keep a list of situations that are on your heart, pray over them daily, and watch Him work. I imagine that looking at this list in December 2013 will give me a huge dose of encouragement from Him!

4. Volunteer with Caleb

• I want our children to learn the importance of serving in God's kingdom. Honestly, I'm not very good at actively pursuing volunteer opportunities, so it's on my list this year as a priority, for myself and to set an example for Caleb.

5. Learn about and receive blog sponsorship

• I never started this blog as a way to make money. Obviously, I haven't made a dime! But, my husband brought up an interesting point when he commented on the free advertising I give for stores and products on my MMSM and OT pages. My knowledge of the blog world is extremely limited, so we'll see how this goes. But, it's worth a shot!

6. Begin to write a devotional book

• Ultimately, I feel led to take many of my writings from this blog and turn them into a practical, entertaining, relate-able, spiritually encouraging devotional book for mothers. I envision a book containing 365 devotionals, scriptures, and prayers specially geared towards the unique circumstances of the SAHM. I imagine naming it "Pillars of the Palace," after Psalm 144:12. This is a huge goal, but I'm excited to watch it unfold!

7. Work out 3x per week

• Not very exciting, but it needs to be on the list!

8. Do one craft/Pinterest project per week

• Creativity feeds my soul. But, I have to make the time to do it! And, I need to make a dent in the hundreds of pins I have accumulated on Pinterest. I would also love for Caleb to develop a love for the arts, so my hope is that we can create a variety of projects together.

9. Start making wine

• No judgement, please! Patrick started brewing his own beer last year, and it has turned into a really fun activity that he does with friends. It's a great gift for any occasion, and it's a fun hobby to watch him explore. I have no shame in admitting my enjoyment of a good glass of Cabernet. But, wine is expensive! We found a great local shop where you can take free classes on wine-making, buy all of your supplies, and even participate in tasting contests after your batches are complete! This is just something fun to do, although it will impede my tasting abilities if goal #1 is accomplished!

10. Do whatever God asks me to do

• No, I didn't need a filler goal for #10. This is actually my most important goal for the year. As I was sitting on the beach in Cabo San Lucas on December 31, waiting for the New Year's fireworks to light up the sky, God spoke to me. I had been asking him throughout the previous days what He wanted me to focus on in 2013. That night, I clearly heard him say, "Kindra, this year, you need to do whatever I ask you to do, even if you don't understand it." Though I knew it was my heavenly Father speaking to my heart, it kind of made me nervous! I am simply praying for the courage to follow Him and His direction this year, wherever it may lead.

I pray these goals may be inspiring to you and your family. Tomorrow, I'll share our family goals with you. While Mexico was fantastic, it's great to be home and back to normal life. Speaking of, I hear a little someone stirring upstairs. Be blessed, mommies!